5 SIGNS THAT YOU ARE A BAD KISSER
Are you sure she loves your kisses?
Kiss is a classic and natural action. But even though it is a sweet process for both, there is a lot that can go wrong when you kiss someone. Meanwhile, a bad kiss can even kill attraction.
In 2007, a study was conducted in which more than 200 people took part. They were all asked the question: “Have you ever felt attracted to someone, but after the first kiss you found out that he no longer interests you?”. More than 60% (!) Of respondents answered positively.
So that this does not happen to you, I will tell you about the main signs of bad kisses and tell you how to avoid mistakes.
- You get pushy too fast
Passionate and sensual kisses are very hot, but in most cases it is worth starting slowly. Kiss-invasion from the first seconds, rather repels than excites, so pull yourself together and gain momentum gradually.
When the girl you kiss puts her hand to her mouth to wipe the saliva or soothe her sore lips after kissing you – this is a very bad sign, so make sure that the kiss is not too wet, and if you decide to playfully bite it, then do it as carefully as possible.
- You do not pay attention to the wishes of your partner
Kissing is a two-way process. It should be pleasant not only for you, but also for her. But if you do not pay attention to your movements and style, then a kiss, most likely, will not give her pleasure.
Kissing is almost like dancing with your lips. You need to carefully monitor the girl’s reaction to your actions and notice what she likes and what doesn’t.
- You have bad breath
Always check before a date that your breathing is in order and your lips are not chapped. This may seem obvious, but NationalToday.com found that bad breath was the main sign of a bad kiss for the thousands of Americans they interviewed.
The figure is very impressive, as well as the awkwardness of the situation when the partner is physically unpleasant to kiss you because of this problem.
- You tilt your head in the opposite direction from your partner
Batu University studies have shown that most people tilt their heads to the right with a kiss, although this may change depending on who initiates the kiss (lefties may be more likely to lean to the left).
In another study conducted by Dhaka University, participants found that when they tilt their heads in the opposite direction from their partner, they feel discomfort. So if you have any doubts, then follow the example of a partner and lean in the same direction as she.
- You do not communicate with her
As with most other things, if you really want to know the truth, ask. It’s okay to ask a girl to give a backlash, and that shows that you care about her. In addition, such a conversation demonstrates the high level of trust that exists in a relationship.
Ask her to show you how she likes and doesn’t like kissing, and what she would like you to do more often. A similar tip from her side will be much more useful and effective than any other advice from a third party.
