How to meet a girl on a dating site

It would seem that getting to know each other through specialized sites or services is easier than ever, because they are used by girls who are in search. But there are no less potential satellites. To improve your chances, follow these rules.

1. Be smart about filling out your profile

Want a serious relationship? Then do not post (or at least do not make the main one) a photo of your torso and other exposed areas of the body. Even if you have mind-blowing cubes. Even if it’s a sin to hide such beauty.

Better bet on pictures that reveal your personality and show your face.

Also, do not be lazy to fill out the profile in detail and pay special attention to the section in which interests are indicated. Remember, the more specific your description, the more likely you are to meet the right person. So don’t be limited to generalities.

2. Avoid newbies

Most dating sites advertise new users: they are placed on the first search pages or in special sections that everyone else sees. As a consequence, newbies (especially girls) receive a lot of messages. So yours might just get lost.

3. Don’t be familiar

No matter how the girl in the photo reminds you of a wild cat or princess, you should not inform her about it in the first message. For dating – even on specialized sites – affectionate words and tenderness are inappropriate.

4. Say no to platitudes

Dating sites and services create a sense of choice. And given that girls there generally receive more messages than men, the latter have to stand out.

The cruel truth: the next “hello, how are you” does not make you want to answer, and the standard interrogation with addiction discourages all the urge to continue the conversation.

Be more specific. To make an acquaintance, use the information that is indicated in the girl’s profile, or choose an extraordinary topic for conversation. For example, offer to share crazy life stories or share your most unusual dream. This will attract attention, avoid tedious questionnaires and melt the ice.

5. And forget about mailings

Some men, tired of scribbling hundreds of welcome messages, decide to come up with one: big, detailed and versatile. So, at least they think. In fact, a text devoid of individual appeal is immediately visible and arouses even less interest.

The advice is simple: decide what kind of woman you are looking for, take the time to select suitable candidates, and write them at least one, but lively phrase. Repeat the procedure if necessary. As they say, seek and find.

Of course, some of the recommendations given here are universal: you need to remain tactful on the Internet, and in real life you should monitor your speech literacy. There are two other reliable ways that work in any conditions: sparkling jokes and asking the girl questions, thus demonstrating your interest.

Do you know other effective techniques? Share them in the comments!