The ideal guy that all girls will fall in love with does not and cannot exist, because people of all genders like different human qualities, character traits, types, and this is absolutely normal and even great.

But it is much easier to compose a portrait of a man who is likely to be unpleasant for most women. Below are four behavioral features that turn off almost everyone, and almost always.

  1. Bad table manners

You can be very handsome, witty and rich, but if you turn into a Neanderthal at the table, it can quickly and irreversibly spoil the girl’s opinion of you. If a man cannot even eat normally, she will begin to worry about whether she will be ashamed to introduce him to family and friends.

In addition, when a person is not able to behave decently at the table, doubts about his accuracy and manners in a broader sense involuntarily creep in.

  1. Sexist comments, jokes and behavior

No matter how innocent your intentions are, joking at the expense of women is one of the most unattractive qualities a man can display. Girls want equality and respect in both social and romantic life.

By adhering to outdated and offensive stereotypes about your gender superiority, you will reduce your attractiveness to women to a critical minimum.

  1. Self-centeredness and disinterest

If you think that praising your merits non-stop turns you into a charismatic and confident guy, I hasten to upset you – this is not so.

Healthy relationships are built on mutual interest in each other, as well as the care and attention that partners give each other. And ignoring her in order to seem cool and “mysterious”, as well as being overly self-centered, are exactly the opposite of what girls would like to get out of a romantic relationship.

  1. Excessive self-confidence to the point of arrogance

It’s no secret that self-confidence is a sexual quality, but it should never be confused with arrogance. There is a fine line between them, and it will not be superfluous to periodically ask yourself – have you crossed it?

Men who seem too arrogant and overconfident tend to push women away, because very soon it becomes clear: such a guy will always consider his opinion more valuable and correct, talk to you in a paternalistic tone, make decisions alone and put his own needs first.

Believe me, this is not the most attractive quality in a partner, since the second person will have to compromise their interests, endure the devaluation of their opinions, feel more stupid, constantly hear boasting and, in general, play the role of “second violin”.

By Cindy
August 31, 2020

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