At first glance, it might seem that alcohol is the best way to minimize the stress of communicating with a girl. You come to a bar, order a few cocktails or glasses of beer, and you’re ready to tell her anything, and even a little extra.

However, you cannot always resort to this method, because no one has canceled hangovers, binges, alcoholism and similar bonuses.

In this article, I decided to share five proven tips on how to organize a date with a girl without alcohol, so that you have no less fun.

  1. Offer her to do something that she has done before

When you start planning a sober date, a world of limitless activities opens up in front of you, and not the only possible trip to a bar, and you may feel a certain uncertainty before the choice that has arisen. After all, you want to offer something truly memorable and non-standard.

In this case, I recommend doing what you have already done before. For example, if you are a fan of bowling, invite the girl to ride the game, and if you like cycling in the park, wait until the warm season and invite her to go for a ride.

If you have no ideas at all, you can always invite her for a cup of coffee at some cozy place. Why not.

  1. Offer to go to the museum

A trip to the museum is one of the best ideas for a sober date, although at first glance it may not seem so.

It’s good if you are both interested in art or history, because then the museum will be an exciting activity for you. However, even if you hate museums, you can still go to one of them, precisely because it will be too boring and quiet there.

In such an atmosphere, you will definitely want to talk to each other, and if suddenly the dialogue comes to a standstill, you can pretend that you are looking at some exhibit.

  1. Make sure your plans have a beginning and an end

For example, going to a museum, theater or cinema always has a conditional beginning and end, as opposed to a simple meeting in the city center. After all, when you invite a girl to go for a walk, appointing her a place, but not suspecting about future plans, you may have a situation of unforeseen discomfort.

This is exactly the moment when you wander aimlessly around the city for two or three hours trying to find suitable topics of conversation. Believe me, no one will be delighted with this.

  1. Make a plan and stick to it

One of the most important ways to please a girl is to show that you are organized. To do this, choose your own meeting place and time, and then show up there without being late. This is the first point in your favor.

Now, if you know where to go, what to do and when this is all over, you can try to implement your plan, thereby taking responsibility for the date.

The fact is that people often like to be simply guided along a predetermined route. Especially when it comes to dating.

  1. Don’t overdo it

Having a sober date doesn’t mean it has to be an eight-hour marathon of adventure. That is, you do not have to plan a trip to an exhibition, then to a restaurant, then to a performance and only then to a jazz concert.

For a sober date, at least one of these activities is quite suitable, and you can make such grandiose plans with your wife (who will be able to endure you every day for many hours, being sober).

By Cindy
July 28, 2020

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