It just needs to be recognized, faster to survive the tragedy and switch faster.

Unrequited love is one of the most difficult things that a huge number of people encounter (unfortunately). When this feeling of humiliation comes, and you begin to understand that the girl of your dreams does not dream of you at all, many prefer to deny the obvious.

But in fact, this is how you only prolong your suffering. You cannot make someone fall in love with you no matter how hard you try, and, in the end, it’s better to know and acknowledge the whole truth and quickly switch to those who love you as much as you can.

  1. She constantly “spits” on your plans

Not every cancellation of plans means that someone has cooled or not interested in you. Every now and then cancels meetings and joint campaigns somewhere for a variety of circumstances. However, if she constantly comes up with some new plans or problems before each of your meetings, especially at the last minute, this is a pretty clear sign that she is not interested in you.

If you really believe her and think that she is really sick or busy every time, then just leave her. If she herself does not offer you a meeting, then you obviously need to move on. Farther from her.

  1. It strengthens you in the position of “just a friend”

Another way that a woman can signal that she is not interested in a romantic relationship with you is to constantly emphasize that this relationship is strictly platonic. If she constantly emphasizes that it is so nice to “have such a friend” or introduces you to others as “My friend,” then she is trying to tell you something.

Namely, that you are not her boyfriend and never will be.

  1. She avoids physical contact

The key signs that two people are reaching each other are touches: to put their hands on each other’s legs, hug their shoulders or waist slightly, or even playfully pat each other. If your love does not do any of this, or if its body language is cold and inaccessible, then it probably subconsciously shows you that you are not interested in it.

  1. Her responses to your messages are indifferent and concise.

If you received from her the 11th message of the type simply “okay” or “yes,” most likely your feelings are not particularly mutual. If a girl is interested in you, it will be the other way around: she will constantly inform you of the smallest details of her day or empty gossip that barely concerns you.

When you fall in love with someone, you usually send messages to him continuously, so if she answers with a minimum number of characters, then this is not a good sign.

  1. She did not introduce you to anyone from her “world”

If you have “dated” (at least you think so) for several weeks or months, but she strangely avoids introducing you to any of her friends or family, she’s probably not giving herself in a relationship , how are you.

Introducing a partner to your friends and family is one of the most convincing signs of persistence. But here everything is ambiguous. She may be a secretive person in her own right, and relationships in her family may be bad or just cold.

  1. She avoids you for several days and only answers periodically

If communication between you is always intermittent and stops for several days, it may be because she simply … forgets about you. If she gives a warm answer to your every third message, and then she completely disappears for several days, this is most likely not mutual sympathy.

  1. She never initiates a meeting.

If your love never plans anything with you, this is a bad sign. Think about it: if she was really interested, you would be one of the first people with whom she would like to visit an exhibition, a movie, and generally spend some leisure time.

  1. She tells you directly that she is not interested in a relationship with you (or in you)

It is as simple as it seems at first glance, without pitfalls. If she tells you that she is not interested in you, then you do not need to constantly analyze her behavior or look for signs that, perhaps, she did not mean what she said.

She meant exactly that, sorry.

  1. She makes you indirectly understand that she is not interested in you.

Sometimes it is difficult for women to be direct with men. Since women are brought up in such a way as to always be sweet and obedient, it is often difficult for them to say “no” directly, and may even subject them to violence in return.

So if she says something like “I’m not very interested to see anyone now” or “I’m busy with work that does not leave much time for dates,” she tells you, as politely and indirectly as possible, that she is not interested in you.

By Cindy
June 29, 2020

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