How to stop being a girl’s friend and become not just a friend

The girl, for whom you have far-reaching plans, talks about problems in your personal life and assures that only you understand her? Watch out! This may mean that you ceased to exist as a sexual object for her and she placed you in the category of friends. To break out of this ghetto, do this.

Out of range

Many guys believe that by surrounding the girl with around-the-clock care, they will pave the shortest path. But this happens only in romantic comedies.

Rushing to the first call across the city to help her make the radio a little louder – the last thing. If your help comes to her without any effort, she will quickly get used to it.

More often answer “no”, otherwise it will end by agreeing to look after her cat on the weekend, while she will be with the biker tattooed from head to toe.

In a fit of jealousy

Feel free to discuss the charms of other girls with her (“Did you see the legs of our new secretary? No? Wait, now I’ll sing about them to you!”). If you express your admiration for her friends or acquaintances, the girl may want to compete with them out of pure sports interest.

No matter how beaten this technique, jealousy is still the senior trump card in your deck. If a girl has even the slightest interest in you, this simple trick will play a decisive role.

Burn her bridges

Fight your shyness and do not redder by a suffocating wave, slightly touching with folders. Let her know that the question of who you are for her – an ordinary friend or lover, has long been resolved. Kiss the girl at each meeting, hug her waist, etc. Your attitude towards her should be clear without words.

The main reason why a girl makes a man a friend is because he acts like a friend.

Preventive strike

Ahead of her with “Let’s just stay friends.” These words will be useful to you when you feel that your relationship, which developed so well at first, is stalled. This sacramental phrase, said at the right time in the right place (for example, at the conclusion of a good evening together), will help push your friend to the next logical step. The girl, of course, understands what you want from her. Therefore, if you suddenly reject her, she will make every effort for you to change your decision.

By Cindy
April 13, 2019

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